For Anne Hamilton, a three-month winter programme of travel and "cultural exchange" in a country where the English language, fair hair, and a rice allergy are all extremely rare was always going to be interesting, challenging, and frustrating. What they didn't tell Anne was that it would also be sunny, funny, and the start of a love affair with this unexplored area of Southeast Asia.
A BLONDE BENGALI WIFE shows the lives beyond the poverty, monsoons, and diarrhoea of Bangladesh and charts a vibrant and fascinating place where one minute Anne is levelling a school playing field "fit for the national cricket team," and then cobbling together a sparkly outfit for a formal wedding the next. Along with Anne are the essential ingredients for survival: a travel-savvy Australian sidekick, a heaven-sent adopted family, and a short, dark, and handsome boy-next-door.During her adventures zipping among the dusty clamour of the capital Dhaka, the longest sea beach in the world at Cox’s Bazaar, the verdant Sylhet tea gardens, and the voluntary health projects of distant villages, Anne amasses a lot of friends, stories...and even a husband.
A BLONDE BENGALI WIFE is the "unexpected travelogue" that reads like a comedy of manners to tell the other side of the story of Bangladesh.
Royalties from the sale of A BLONDE BENGALI WIFE will go to benefit Bhola’s Children, a home and school for orphaned and disabled children on the island of Bhola (UK registered charity No. 1118345).
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Day 1 - Far and Away
Caught up in the frenzied momentum of the Hall of Arrivings in Zia International Airport, I dodge swarthy policemen whose packed holsters rest on nonchalant hips and join a bedraggled queue for passport control. Drowning in an all-encompassing staccato of foreign language, rendered self-conscious by a thousand stares, I expect delays and confusion, but the bored official takes my landing card, curls his lip and pronounces, “Foreigners not needing this paper.” He rips it in half, in quarters, and tosses the pieces high in the air like homemade confetti.
“Lugs? Have lugs?” another uniform barks.
We stare at each other for a long minute. My ears twitch.
“Lugs. Lugs?” he shouts, pointing to a pile of suitcases opportunely passing by on the elderly head of a lone porter. “Wait lugs. Lugs go,” he orders through a mist of miscomprehension.
I wait. And I wait a bit more. Luggage grinds around a carousel that breaks down with hypnotising regularity. I see the stuff other passengers load onto their convoys of trolleys, and congratulate myself on a single, if vast, rucksack that shudders into view just as I am confronting the possibility of a night without clean knickers. I hoist it onto an enormous, compartmentalised cart where it resembles the last egg in a two-dozen box, and then dawdle towards the glass doors.
The final threads of my security net snap as I emerge onto a film set of that standard, tele-visual depiction of the Third World. A heavy cloak of heat settles on my shoulders and a celestial glare belies the sky’s blanket whiteness. Flying in and descending over the empty, muddy riverbeds slicing through the mustard-coloured bog lands of the well-advanced dry season, I pondered the whereabouts of Bangladesh’s 140 million inhabitants.
The answer was in front of me.
On the other side of grey and functional prison gates manned by blue-bereted guards sporting sand-coloured trousers and large rifles, a watchful and abundant crowd pushes forward, eagerly, volubly scanning the emerging passengers. Men in traditional and Western clothing predominate. They are ten, fifteen rows deep, a swarming carpet of locusts grasping the railings, clambering atop one another’s shoulders and shaking the clattering metal barriers. Without embarrassment, they are hugging new arrivals, holding hands, weeping with joy. The women, their sleek, dark hair knotted up and shielded by long scarves—dupattas—are a rainbow of colours. Saris and salwar kameezes, the loose tunics worn over baggy trousers, come in clashing and contrasting shades: reds and golds, bright oranges, and purples. Black burkhas equalise spangled finery and threadbare poverty.
I do note that amongst this heaving, lively, mixed bag of humanity, there appears to be a surprising scarcity of smiling Salvation Army ladies and plump, jolly nuns cradling pot-bellied, huge-eyed babies.
The noise is deafening, everyone is shouting. My problem is that nobody appears to be shouting for me.
“What the hell am I doing here, anyway?” I mutter to myself. “First, my very patient husband drives me through hours of snow to an all-but-closed airport, and then the check-in staff has no record of my reservation. Sensible people would take this as a warning. Me? Oh no, I have to be clever, travel thousands of miles across the world whilst everyone else I know is sitting around in a post-Christmas lethargy, guzzling New Year champagne and canapés…”
Leaning on my trolley, trying to look blasé whilst scanning the crowd and waiting to be found—in this crowd, a pale-faced, blonde-haired Westerner is a beacon—a frowning policeman accosts me.
“Bangla, na,” I apologise, bemoaning my half-hearted efforts with Bengali tapes and a phrasebook. We attempt to communicate in sign language since the only English phrase the policeman can repeat frequently and with a serious smile is unconstructive in the circumstances:
“I love you,” he announces, arms akimbo. “I love you.”
“Thank you,” I say. “But do you love me enough to take me home with you? You see, I don’t know where I’m going, where I am staying, who is going to meet me, what I will be doing, or indeed, with whom I will be doing it.”
Gently, he moves me to a quieter spot where more people can easily watch me. Minutes grind past. Then...
I spy a beige anorak jumping up and down amidst the crowd, a torn cardboard sign hoist above his head. He is pushing through the throng, and then arguing with a security guard, and then braving the concrete no-man’s land before me. Is this my saviour in nylon slacks and Jesus sandals? Sure enough, I decipher a faint biro scribble on the back of the cereal packet dangling from his arm.
His mouth is moving. “Hey you, salaam walekum. Hello.” I think I lip read. “Salaam.”
“Walekum es-salaam,” I croak, my voice lost in the universal clamour.
“Come.” The man motions.
I follow him.
The policeman follows me.
Like the Red Sea, the staring crowd parts for our relay passage.
“Stay,” my new escort commands and dashes into the road.
The policeman erects a protective cordon around me. “I love you,” he confirms.
“Then, soon you must let me go,” I tell him. “It’s all right, honestly. That man is from SCI—did you see his sign? SCI: Service Civil International. Do you know it?” I raise my eyebrows in hope. “It’s an international charity that arranges cultural exchange visits for…Oh, never mind.”
“I love you?” he asks.
“I love you too,” I echo, almost truthfully.
The constipated traffic is an aural torture chamber with the tinkle of rickshaw bells, squealing brakes, and honking hooters. Battered buses and ponderous, primrose-coloured trucks painted with faded hieroglyphics chug off in a stream of dust. The occasional shiny limo purrs past, and taxicabs are in transit. All have some prang or bump. Worse than the centre of Rome, the congestion of Cairo, or the craziness around the Arc de Triomphe, impotent vehicles strain to speed in every direction. Drivers are oblivious to the whistles of the traffic police. All appear to be ranting and gesticulating their right to a piece—any piece—of the road.
While absent-mindedly cuffing a couple of people around the ear, my policeman helps the SCI representative jam me into a smoky, rattling, three-wheeler auto-rickshaw, and only then does he mooch back to his station. This so-called “baby taxi” has proportions suitable for seating one chubby toddler. My escort and I look like premature twins in the last remaining incubator. There are no doors, just rolled up plastic covers. Our driver jolts us headlong into the throng, bouncing along a road akin to an unpaved quarry, and swerves onto the pavement, pausing for petrol to be poured into a hole just under the steering wheel. Both the driver and the pump attendant lean over cheerfully, the cigarettes dangling from their mouths by no means impede their abuse of a limbless beggar who is surprisingly fleet of foot and a gang of children selling dirty bottles of tap water.
Soon we race down the road until everything blurs. I have one hand on my flight bag—since my companion mimed it worthy of a possible smash-and-grab routine—the other is gripping the seat to delay my inevitable slide to the floor. My knee is wedged against my rucksack, my hair is all over my face, and I am practically sitting on the knee of a Bangladeshi man whose name I cannot fathom. He starts several conversations with a lopsided and incredulous grin:
“Nam?”
“Er, say that again?”
“Nam? Nam? You nam?”
“Oh, I see. Anne. My name is Anne.”
He has a good laugh, and then jabs himself violently in the chest. “Me nam: Shadow.”
Well, that’s what it sounds like anyway. I smile. There is a long pause.
“Your country—where?” he shouts valiantly, proud of his grasp of English.
Encouraged by his enthusiastic and totally incomprehensible hand gestures, I focus carefully.
“It’s Ireland. I’m from Ireland. My country is Ireland,” I respond, like an English tutor.
“Ireland?” he repeats. “Hmm.” He smiles again. “Ahh, England,” he says, nodding.
It reminds me of all the people back home who said: “You’re going where? Bangladesh? Isn’t that in India?”
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